Esther Perel: How to Overcome Male Performance Anxiety

Published on July 9, 2017 by Esther Perel
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“When I’m not interested in sex, it makes me feel like I’m not a man. In fact, my wife wants it more than me so I came up with the excuse of chronic back pain. I think it’s easier for her to accept. What’s wrong with me?” - David, Clifton, New Jersey

Men are under pressure in life, and in the bedroom, to be untiring, masterful and dominant. It’s assumed men are always up for sex and women’s interest is much less, and subjective.

It’s time we stop this oversimplification of men and start debunking some of our most dear assumptions about men.

References

Wikipedia: Esther Perel
Esther Perel (born 1958) is a Belgian psychotherapist notable for exploring the tension between the need for security (love, belonging and closeness) and the need for freedom (erotic desire, adventure and distance) in human relationships.

official web site: Esther Perel

my blog: Esther Perel: Rethinking infidelity ... a talk for anyone who has ever loved - Aug 4/2015

my blog: Esther Perel: Is this woman on to something? - Mar 12/2013

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